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Reclaiming Your Joy as an Adult

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Every day we wake up surprised that yet again we have to adult. With so many tasks and priorities to keep up with, joy can get lost in the mix. But guess what? Your joy is yours to reclaim, and it is something you should take seriously. If you’ve been feeling like life is out of whack, it’s time to get back in your groove. Here’s how you can bring more joy back into your everyday life:


Prioritize Play Like You Prioritize Work

When was the last time you did something just for fun? Not because it was productive, not because it checked a box—just because it made you happy. As kids, we had recess built into our day, but as adults, we have to schedule our own playtime. Whether it’s painting, dancing, playing a sport, brunch or even having a game night with friends, make time for activities that bring you pure joy.


Romanticize the Little Things

Who said joy only comes from big milestones? Find beauty in the small moments—your morning coffee, a solo date at your favorite restaurant, fresh flowers in your home. Set the mood with music while you cook, take a scenic route on your walk, or light a candle while you work. When you start appreciating the little things, life starts to feel more joyful overall.


Set Boundaries & Protect Your Peace

Nothing drains joy faster than being stretched too thin. Protecting your energy is key to reclaiming your happiness. That means saying no to things that don’t serve you, cutting back on doom-scrolling, and prioritizing rest without guilt. Joy thrives in a peaceful mind, so give yourself permission to set boundaries that keep your well-being in check.


Connect With People Who Fill Your Cup

Joy isn’t just about what you do—it’s also about who you surround yourself with. Spend time with people who uplift you, who make you laugh until your stomach hurts, and who remind you of who you are when life gets overwhelming. Community and connection are major keys to a joyful life.


Stop Waiting for the “Perfect” Time

Here’s the thing—there will never be a perfect time to prioritize joy. If you keep waiting until everything is just right, you’ll be waiting forever. Joy is something you create now, in the middle of the chaos, in the small pockets of your day, and in the moments that may seem ordinary. You deserve happiness today—not just in some distant future.


Reclaiming your joy is about making a conscious decision to prioritize what makes you feel alive. So, what’s one thing you can do today to bring more joy into your life?


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